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It is remarkably easy to compare your ordinary Wednesday with somebody else's edited best bits.

Notice what happens after scrolling

Some content entertains or connects you. Some reliably leaves you feeling behind, unattractive, unsuccessful or angry. Your feed is not neutral if it changes how you feel every time you use it.

Curate ruthlessly

Mute, unfollow or reduce exposure to accounts that consistently make you feel worse. You do not owe an algorithm your attention.

Comparison needs context

You rarely know somebody's finances, relationship, health, editing, medication, genetics or what happened five minutes after the photograph. Treat social media as content, not a complete dataset about somebody else's life.

Sources & further reading

Educational information, not a diagnosis. Where a problem involves money, gambling, alcohol, abuse, bereavement or another specialist issue, use an appropriate specialist service as well as mental-health support where needed.