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Helping yourself can include asking for help

Need urgent help?

Self-help is not the right tool for an emergency. If you or someone else is in danger, call 999 or go to A&E. If you need urgent mental-health help but it is not an emergency, use NHS 111 online or call 111 and select the mental-health option.

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“Self-help” should never be translated as “sort yourself out on your own”.

Use tools, not tests

Walking, routines, breathing, journalling, sleep habits and social connection are tools. If they do not solve the problem, you have not failed the test.

Combine approaches

Professional treatment and practical self-help can work alongside each other. If you're prescribed medication, lifestyle support does not mean ignoring the prescription; if you're in therapy, exercise does not replace the therapy.

Escalating is progress

Realising “this isn't enough, I need proper help” is useful self-awareness. Our next Good to Talk release will explain exactly what getting professional help can look like.

Sources & further reading

Self-help can support mental wellbeing, but it is not a substitute for professional assessment or treatment when those are needed.