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When your brain won't stop holding meetings

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Thinking harder is not always the solution to thinking too much.

Name the loop

Write the thought down. Ask: is this a problem I can act on, a decision I need to make, or uncertainty I'm trying to eliminate? If action exists, define it. If not, more rumination may simply be more rumination.

Use a worry parking space

When a non-urgent worry appears, note it and return to it during a short planned period later. This is not pretending it does not exist; it is choosing when it gets your attention.

Move attention physically

A task involving your senses — walking, showering, cooking, tidying, music — can help shift attention out of an internal loop. If intrusive thoughts or anxiety are persistent or significantly impairing life, seek professional support.

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Self-help can support mental wellbeing, but it is not a substitute for professional assessment or treatment when those are needed.